As the poet Rilke said, "Loving another person is the hardest
work there is, such that all other work is mere preparation.
Dr. John Becker is a Licensed Psychologist and Certified
Imago Relationship Therapist with over thirty years post doctoral experience available to help you with that work.
Already in an important relationship that is stuck?
There are more effective and creative alternatives
than trying the same approach with more and more effort or, if that approach fails, separating from your romantic
partner. Psychological research in recent years has revealed proven strategies that lead to deepening safety, respect, joy,
passion and love in romantic relationships. What's even more exciting is that these skills are very learnable. While it's
preferable that your partner actively participate in learning these skills with you from the beginning, you can learn how
to respectfully invite your partner into deeper levels of emotional intimacy by learning these skills initially by yourself.
Ready to commit to your life partner?
Premarital counseling is arguably the wisest preparation
for a life long marriage that remains "full of life." It's also one of the best ways to avoid the documented
fact that some 50% of first and some 63% of second marriages end in divorce. Learn the skills that are crucial to success
in your marriage before the honeymoon ends.
Looking for your soulmate?
If you've moved
beyond thinking that writing a better internet profile or getting advice from well meaning friends and relatives is your best
preparation to attract your soulmate, you may be ready for a program based on cutting edge social science research.
Come learn the skills to effectively attract your romantic soulmate and to prepare yourself to nurture and sustain that relationship
once you've found it.
Could your business and professional relationships be more harmonious and
therefore creative?
Business and professional relationships inevitably go through developmental processes
as do other types of relationships. That is, they usually experience a "honeymoon period" followed by a period of
"storming" in which differences and conflicts become all too apparent. Without specialized communication skills,
these conflicts can become quagmires. Rather than being springboards to creative synergy, conflicts can end in bitter impasse
or even "divorce." Dr.Becker teaches a proven communicatioin approach which is easily learned and, with proficiency,
can create a harmonious, mutually supportive and successful business collaboration.
Your Therapist
Dr. John Becker is a Licensed Psychologist, a Psychotherapist and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist with over
thirty years post doctoral experience. He has extensive experience and training in helping singles to attract and prepare
for, and couples to deepen their romantic soulmate relationship. In the business realm, Dr. Becker brings his experience as
a trained Executive Coach and Consultant with Hay Associates, International Consultants to Management and his personal
management experience directing both for profit and non profit organizations.
Dr. Becker is well known for
his personalized approach to psychotherapy and relationship counseling, as well as for his entertaining and informative workshops
given to singles', couples', business and professional organizations.